I think I am getting old or something because Unbound got it’s first bleh review yesterday–not a BAD review and some very nice things were said, but definitely not the raves I’ve been a tad spoiled with the last few weeks. Here’s the funny thing…my response? Kind of a shrug. Whatever. Didn’t bother me.
That means I’m getting old, doesn’t it?
Anyway, Jennifer Crusie has a great (practical) article on her blog about dealing with reviews. If you’re a writer and you are taking what someone (or a number of someones) are saying about you and your book to heart, give it a gander.
I will add to her advice of not contacting the reviewer. Good review–send a thank you. Bad review–keep your mouth shut. And this means do not respond–not even with a thank you for taking the time. I know people who have done that–it lead no where good. Suddenly the reviewer who didn’t “get” your book thinks you appreciate and want more of their “guidance”. You don’t–you know you don’t. I don’t care how well your momma raised you DO NOT REPLY.
Another little game I enjoy playing–check other’s reviews. This is not for mean reasons–it is for sanity-saving reasons. Pick one of your favorite authors some one you respect and want to emulate–have a name in mind? Okay, now trot over to whatever site or magazine gave you a bad review and look up said author. OMG!!! They gave (fill in the blank with name) a (2/D/1 bleeding heart/whatever). What were they thinking!!
Feel better? You bet you do!
